Monday, July 29, 2013

My husband’s GEEKING OUT! Vs. my Geeking Out?



My husband and I have always geeked out in different ways. He and I have discussed this before, but it became more apparent to me at SDCC.
The first time I really noticed it was at Fan Days in Dallas last year. We had a chance to meet Felicia Day whom I am a huge fan of. Not only for her movies, but the online community she has built on her YouTube Geek & Sundry channel.  I was excited to get my Guild comic book signed, and get a picture with her. So this is where the difference between my husband and my geekiness comes in.
He gets excited, and begins to rant. I stand there and blink my eyes, trying to process the situation and what I would like to say. So towards the end of the meeting her, I say “I love you.” Then, my brain says that does not sound right, does it? It does not sound complete my brain says. So then, I say “you’re my hero.”
While the last statement is very much true when you play the whole thing as it happened in real time of like 10 seconds, it goes like this…
Felicia: finishing up her signature, etc
Me: I love you. You’re my hero
Felicia: gesturing an aw, standing there and being an awesome person
Me: runs away
… I know, I know. It may not seem bad to most people or it may seem funny to some. But to me it was a maybe I should not say anything for the rest of the day? moment. Just in case I meet someone else during Fan Days, and I decide to run away instead of chatting with people whose work I admire.
So at SDCC, I REALLY noticed it even more. While my husband got excited, talked a bunch, asked questions, and said how much he loved this book, or move with the people we had an opportunity to meet – I stood there and just shook my head. If you want a mental picture of what I might look like, think about Troy from Community. You know the episode when he meets Levar Burton. He acts more traumatized in a manner of speaking, because now his dream of meeting his hero has come true. You could also say I looked like Ralphie from a Christmas Story, when Santa asks him, “how about a nice football?” And Ralphie just nods because he cannot remember what he wanted for Christmas.                
The reason I am sharing my geekiness vs. my husbands, is to say no matter how you geek out about something, or when you meet someone whose work you admire, the point is to use that geeky influence in a positive and creative way.

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