Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Favorite Fictional Couples

I have written about my favorite bromances, so today I thought I would write about or maybe in this case ramble about my favorite couples in fiction. They are my favorite couples not necessarily because of the love story but just the stories itself. These are from both movies and books. I apologize in advance for any spoilers. However, knowing me most of my information will be short because I don’t want to go on, or do I?

Beth Fremont and Lincoln O’Neil from Attachments by Rainbow Rowell
For those of you who have not gotten around to reaching Attachments. First off, why not? Rainbow Rowell is a talented, witty, and honest writer. Go get you one Attachments, or any of her books, because they should be on your TBR list. Attachments is a love story in which boy meets girl, well sort of. Lincoln works in the System Securities department at The Courier. As he is reading their emails, which in his defense is his job, he begins to fall in love with Beth. Without giving too much away Beth does notice Lincoln but when she first does there is another person in the picture. I like that it’s a love story, but Rainbow Rowell does an excellent job building Beth and Lincoln characters that you don’t just fall in love with them together but as individual people.

Scott Pilgrim and Ramona Flowers from the comic series and the movie.
Fours words … Scott and Romona, eh?

Katniss Everdeen and Peeta Mellark from The Hunger Games trilogy.
I read The Hunger Games trilogy before the movie came out. I do have to say the movies do hold up, and brings the story out of the page. (In my humble opinion.) I won’t go into the summary to much because I can imagine by now everyone has read the books or seen the movies. Which I can imagine is not easy to make the reader of the books happy, which trying to find a balance of making a movie that can stand alone for people who have not read the books. Katniss and Peeta are another great example of how we fall in love with two people both individually and together. I enjoy that Suzanne Collins makes Katniss her own person. Although she is going through being a teenager phase, Suzanne Collins does not let Katniss’s love life define her. And without sounding bias, I am in love with Peeta. Not like that, I know he is fictional, but I can’t help it I actually like the nice guy. (I did marry one after all. Nice guy … not fictional character.)

Amanda Price and Darcy from Lost in Austen.
I know for some people Jane Austen might be one of those either you like her or you don’t. If you don’t that’s okay. What I like about Lost in Austen, it’s for everyone. Okay that sounds kind of vague. Lost in Austen reminds me of when I was a kid there were chose your own adventure stories. It’s been so long I am not sure what if that is what they are called anymore. Anywho, you read the story and at the end of the chapter it says to go into the room, turn to page 22 or if you want to continue walking keep reading. (Man I wish I could remember a name of a book like that, that I read.) Lost in Austen is also funny because it reminds me of me or anyone else I know who gets so absorbed by the story that you can’t help but laugh or cry with your favorite characters. Amanda Price works at a bank and to escape the everyday life she reads Pride and Prejudice over and over and over. She reads this book so much, somehow her and Elizabeth Bennet end up in each other’s lives. Hopefully this doesn’t spoil it too much. The story ends with Amanda and Darcy falling in love and it rewrites Pride and Prejudice in a manner of speaking.

Olivia Dunham and Peter Bishop from Fringe
Dunham is played by Anna Torv and Bishop by Joshua Jackson. He’s her lobster. Oh and if the internet can hear my small voice … yes I would love for Anna Torv to play Ms. Marvel. Let’s make it happen internet. I can so picture it. And I am biased about Joshua Jackson because I always preferred Pacey to Dawson. There I said okay? Anyway. Olivia and Peter are meant to be. I don’t mean in a cheesy way. Just they have the kind of love where when you know, you know kind of love. One thing I love about the Fringe series is that Peter respects Olivia as a woman and her career. He does not try and flirt with her because he knows it will not work, and when they do end up together it will be real. If you have watched the series you know that it’s not a boy meets girl, boy falls in love with girl and timing is not right. It’s more like a boy meets girl, boy falls in love with girl and timeline is not right because of another Fringe event. Darn you Folivia and your vagenda! (If you want to know what a vagenda is, watch Fringe you won’t be sorry.)

Angela Chase and Jordan Catalano from My So-Called Life
Ah, if ever there were a picture of teenage angst in regards to teenage love, Angela’s picture would be in the dictionary. But who can blame her? Have you ever seen Catalano lean? Angela and Catalano are not the only reason I like My So-Called Life I enjoy the series because it was ahead of its time. It was fictional but discussed real issues such as teenage drinking and sex, and discussed a number of issues in a honest, relatable way.

Raleigh Becket and Mako Mori from Pacific Rim
Okay this one is not a love story in the traditional sense. Which is why I wanted to end the blog this way. I can best describe way I like their story by quoting Guillermo del Toro, which is still my favorite quote of all time.  “I wanted to show that men and women can be friends without having a relationship. Theirs is a story about partnership, equality and a strong bond between partners. It’s important for little girls to know not every story has to be a love story and for boys to know that soldiers aren’t the only ones to triumph in war.”

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Random thoughts on the internet?


My husband said something that inspired me to write something that has been on my mind. “Trolls gonna troll.” It was right after reading comments on a video we saw online. (Side note to self, I really do have to stop reading the comments.) Normally neither one of us are negative on our blogs. And my initiation for this blog is not to be negative. It’s something to express that we don’t understand why people are the way they are, or say what they say.

I always think when you express yourself in words there is always a fine line because written words cannot always express our tone or our imitations. As mentioned my goal here is not be negative. There is enough of that in the internet. My goal which I hope to achieve is just to express my thoughts, and my feelings with no offense.

Many people know by now that Becky Hammon has been hired by the San Antonio Spurs. And with that of course came the comments about her being a girl. Whether that was on her looks or that it was a PR stunt. What amazed me was when a person made the comment about her and Tony Parker. I think in any work environment it is naturally for people to joke and form friendships. I am not sure why there are certain people who think when a man and woman joke there is something more going on. While I admit I am old fashion about certain things, for example as a married woman I would not be alone in a car with a guy. (Now that I think about that I am not sure if old fashion is the right word, perhaps personal preference. It’s just how I am, out of respect for my husband and my marriage.)To joke in friendship or comradery is okay.

My husband drops me off at work. The reason I mention this is because he drops me off at work, I often run across comments such as I am not sure if she knows how to drive, or other things about a how my world revolves around my husband in a negative connotation. Which I do not understand. In truth, financially it works out because his work is about 15 minutes away from where I work and he goes in after I do and gets off before me. Most importantly, I enjoy spending time with my best friend and it’s awesomely wonderful to see him after a long day of work and just drive in that comfortable silence. Just to give some background on that, if you read my other blog about a friend asking me how my husband and I have a good relationship. I mentioned that he was deployed a couple of months after we were married. So yes I do like spending time with my husband. Life is too short not to spend it with someone you love when you are lucky enough to have been given that chance.

I was watching a TedTalks video the other day. It was an amazing video, however I will not mention the speakers name out of respect because I do not want to add to that type of environment. The first comment I saw was about the way she looked. (?) That ? mark is the expression I probably had on my face. It reminds me of this (and I really wish I could remember because I feel like I am not going to do it justice) it was a video or article I read about how as women often are careful in what they do and say. For example, when a woman is assertive and confident she may be perceived as “bossy” or if she expresses how she feels she may be perceived as “emotional”, etc.

There will be a lot of things I am unsure about as I write this. Because to understand why someone will say harmful things about another person is beyond me. As humans we want to try and figure it out because, well that’s who we are, always seeking for meaning and understanding. I just hope one day we get there.